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Hey guyssss! How are you doing?

Hope your day was great? Mine….well, stressful as usual—but all thanks to God. 😫🤧

So, earlier today, I was meditating and the word TRUST came to my mind.

Below are words from the meditation. I hope the words will bless you and you will learn one or two things from them.

Relax and enjoy. 😌✨

I know you have learnt one or two things, innit? 😉

(P. S:- it’s culled from my twitter handle @pen_flaming. You can do well to follow me and also on Instagram @d’flaming_pen )

Thanks for reading throughhhhh. I really appreciate.

See ya some other time. 🤗

Byeeeeeeeee!!!!

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Hello, hello famzzzzz 🤩🤩🤩!!! How have y’all been doinggggg? Woops! I really missed y’all and this site. School’s hustles and bustles are so stressful that I fell sick of recent— but all thanks to God, I’ve recuperated.

That’s by the wayyy. I’m here again with an interesting topic, Eye service…hmm! The Yorubas of the South Western part of Nigeria will call it “oju aye”. ‘Sounds funny, innit?

You see, during my childhood days, I used to think that eye service means “the service rendered to the eyes only”. Later, I realised that the actual meaning is totally different from what I thought it was!

Two of the things I love about myself is keen observation and thorough research😎👌. (P.s:- I’m not being full of myself here🙅🏻. Plixxxx. Ejoor.)

According to my research, “eye service is the service rendered when the employer is only around”. Well, eye service is not only done in the professional world, but also in friendships, relationships, family ties and even in Christendom and Islamic world.

Absurd, innit?

Eye service is a service of deceit and corruption. Those who renders the so called service are called the green snakes under the green grass. Now I realise why it is called EYE service; Mr. A does it only when Mr. B is watching (eyes).

Even Jesus said “Not all those who call me Lord, Lord will enter the Kingdom of God“.

Last month, I read a particular book. Very interesting one. The author mentioned a man who fasted for 100 days stretch. He wanted to “move” God. Guess what happened? He died on the 100th day when he wanted to break his fasting.

See, there are some things most of us don’t know. One of it is that God doesn’t move. He is not man that moves; He is God and He does as He pleases. So, if you think you can move God, please stop thinking. You can’t move God!

Now, to the human-to-human part…how would feel if your friends, spouse, families and elderly ones discover that you aren’t loyal to them?

What if they discover that you don’t really love them?

What if they discover that you have been fooling them all this while? How would you feel?

Sad, right?

But…how do you think they would feel? Sad and heartbroken, right?

That’s it! The wages of eye service is disgrace and distrust.

So, the conclusion of the whole matter is that eye service is very dangerous.

If you are engaging in it, please do well to disengage.

If you are about to engage, please do well not to do so.

If you are no longer engaging, please do well not be engaged again.

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Thanks to y’all for reading through. I really appreciate🙏🏻. My next post is gonna be more interesting than this.

Till I come your way soonest, it’s adiós for now.

Have a glorious and blessed week!!!

Flame✨🔥💓

Dear Friend,

I know you’ve been going through a lot, but my writing this letter to you is to cheer you up.

You see, that situation you are in, is just for a moment. The storm raging will soon cease.

You need to stand firm and strong. Be steadfast in your most holy faith. Keep on looking unto God. Believe In Him.

Weep no more, rather, rejoice. Rejoice and rejoice evermore. The tide is turning for the best!

Your Dearest Friend,

Flame.

Hey guys! How are y’all doing? ‘Trust y’all doing good.

Alright…as I said in my previous post, today I’m gonna conclude the story.

Okay, let’s go!

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There was a fateful day when Mr. & Mrs. Davies with their second son, Frank, attended an occasion.

When they got back home around 5pm, Francis was lying in the pool of blood by the entrance of his room.

“Oh my! Oh my! Francis why???” His mother wailed and threw herself on his bloodstained body. Frank also joined her. Mr. Davies stood transfixed and his eyes was full of tears.

Then, Frank looked up and saw a white paper by the door handle. He took the paper and read aloud.

“My Dear parents and brother,

Every time I blame myself—my miserable self— for choosing a miserable destiny when coming to this world.

You really hated me. You treated me with contempt but I don’t blame you, rather I blame myself.

I tried so many times to stand up and stand out but even in the process, I fall back.

I really hated my condition that’s why I struggle in my little way to please you— to make y’all proud.

I’m sorry for taking this step. This is the best I can do for us all— for us to have peace of mind.

I love y’all so much. Till we meet again to part no more.

Your Loving Son & bro,

Francis.”

“No, Francis…nooo!!!”

Three days later, Francis was buried in one of the best cemeteries in town.

His parents regretted they treated their son, Francis, badly. They didn’t

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I hope you learnt a lot from this touching story.

What I can point out from the story is;

📌The act of favoritism must be replaced with equal treatment. Just like what happened to Francis, the unfavoured fellow can commit suicide after being depressed— or can even kill the favoured fellow out of envy and jealousy.

📌 The only kind of love that overshadows every disability, weakness and flaw of a person is called agape. Every individual— particularly believers— must have this.

So, we have come to the end of this interesting topic!!! Thank y’all for engaging— especially those who share my posts to their friends and social media. I really appreciate🙏🏻.

God bless you richly.

See ya some other time🤗.

Flame 🔥 loves you and you know it😉😘.

Happy new month, my lovelies🤩🤩!!

All thanks be unto God for bringing us into the month of April. We thank God for life. We thank God for grace and mercy. Oh! Lest I forget, April is my birth month😁(but I won’t disclose the date to you yet🤪).

But to be sincere, I was really in high spirit this morning; moving to and fro, rolling on the floor, jumping on the bed—so restless, gosh🤦🏻! The funniest part is that I almost slipped off in the bathroom while dancing😂.

Anywaysssssss, that’s by the wayyy. This is April. New month, new beginning…new month, new directions & ideas…new month, more blessings.🤲🏻💫

Here are some helpful tips for you:

1. Be friendly

2. Be a cheerful giver.

3. Don’t give up; keep pushing.

4. Love God and serve God the more.

5. Be focused.

6. Be intentional in all that you do.

7. Love everyone and;

8. Enjoy this month to the fullest!

So, that’s all. Happy new month to y’all, once again🤗.

Happy birthday to me in advance😉.

I love you and you know it😘.

P. S:- I’d be dropping some interesting stories here 😋(I pray I won’t be busy as before😓). Anticipate!!!!

Flame🔥🦅

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Oh yeah! February 14 is here again! *sways hips*

Everywhere is just bubbling and popping with reds & whites. Omoooooo🤩!!!!! (Wahala for who no celebrate Val o😂).

But seriously, Valentine’s Day is over hyped this year o. I can remember three weeks…yeah, three weeks ago, people were just posting Lomotif, Triller videos, “pre-val” photos where boo and bae clung to themselves, and the singles would be like “God when😭”

The funniest part is that some niggers broke up with their babes. Why? No kudi(money). Hmmm…wahala wear white and red bayii o 😆😅.

Wo, na them sabi jare.

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Many of us believe that Valentine’s Day is only meant for lovers (couples, boyfriends & girlfriends). No, it’s not!

Valentine’s Day is a day meant to celebrate your LOVED ONES —families, friends and spouse(s). Sharing of gifts and hanging out are the ways of celebrating them.

Do you even know that YOU are part of your loved ones🤷🏻? Self love is not a bad thing.

So don’t feel bad if you have a boo or a bae —or if your families and friends are living very far away from you— just dress up nicely and take yourself out.

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Happy Val’s Day, once again!

I’m expecting my own Val’s gift o😜.

See ya later!

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What’s up, what’s up guysssss🤩!!!!

I welcome us to the month of February💃!

I haven’t really been blogging and writing due to school’s jama jama 😂 (ko easy o, na God dey help us).

So, I’m back here with a juicy and interesting topic😋.

Y’all just chillax and read through!

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Sometime in 2018, a guy who was my classmate in high school then, came to to my desk after the morning class.

“Ore…” He said.

I raised my head up to him and said “how may I help you?“

Then he moved closer to me and the bombshell landed from his mouth and exploded in my ears.

“You have beards! O. M. G!!”

I was like “wait…what?” Then, I touched my jaw and felt three strands of hair. Geez!!! Beards! Where did they come from😬?

Then I smiled at him, feigning surprise “it looks cool, right?😉”

Ever since then, my classmates, friends and even family make fun of me. Ahh, o pain me gidi gaaannn.

It got to a point that I had to shave them off in annoyance but little did I know that it would increase x3!!!

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You see, my dear;

📍Don’t feel bad because you have puffed, broken or scattered teeth.

📍 Don’t feel bad because you have figure 1 or figure 0.

📍 Don’t feel bad because you have a small stature—the difference between small and short is really big, wide and clear!

📍Don’t feel bad because you have a flat ass or huge ass.

You have to BE YOUR OWN KIND OF BEAUTY.

All you need to do is to accept the way you are —the way you are created.

That’s just it!!! I stopped shaving my beards when I realized that, that was how I was created. Though people recommended some medications, I ignored them.

So, sweetheart, you are beautiful/handsome the way you are😘. Don’t you mind what people might say to you. They didn’t create you.

Beautiful beyond expression and imagination, is the One who made you the way He is.

I do tell my friends something which is “every living creature is created in unique ways”.

Black or white, tall or short, big or small, you just have to “be-YOU-tiful”🤗”.

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Till I come your way again next time, it is a “bye” from me to you!

Don’t forget to like, comment and share to your loved ones🤗.

Remember, I love you always 💖

Dara 💋

Hello 👋🏻and good afternoon to y’all🤗.

Hope you’re enjoying your day? Oh yeah, I know you are😉.

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So……last night I got the inspiration to write on the topic above. Really, it isn’t easy to write but na God dey help us like I do say 😅.

Okay, now let’s journey into this!

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Sometimes, in life, our families and friends don’t take or make decisions about some things for us.

They’d say “Well, it’s up to you!”, “The ball is in your court”.

The reason is/might be because;

i) they don’t want a situation whereby they would be blamed by you, when it later results to another thing;

ii) they feel that the stage that you are in (adolescence or youth), you ought to know your right and your left (it means you ought to know what’s good and what’s not).

Please, like I mentioned earlier it’s about some certain things—not all things.

Though, some illiterate and carefree parents (it’s not an insult🙅🏻) pass the mandate of decision making to their children, who are literate and exposed; and the parents will later regret of their mistakes.

But that’s not where I’m driving at exactly.

Let’s continue….

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God gave us wisdom to do things aright, to make good decisions —sensible decisions…yes or yes?

So, to conclude, in order to avoid regrets later on, decide wisely.

In all ramifications, decide wisely.

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I hope you’ve learnt one or two things 🤗?

Alright🤩!

Do have a lovely day!

Remember to always Stay focused!

Dara💓